Daily Devotional - January 10th, 2026
“He that is slow to anger is better than the mighty; and he that ruleth his spirit than he that taketh a city.” — Proverbs 16:32
“Anger that is bridled becomes strength; anger that is unleashed creates wounds.” — Alma Ohene-Opare
Commentary:
Anger is not proof of passion; it is proof of power waiting to be governed. In relationships, especially the closest ones, anger often surfaces not because we care too little, but because we care deeply and feel threatened, unheard, or misunderstood. The problem is not the feeling itself. The danger lies in letting anger take the reins. Like a powerful horse, anger can carry us forward with purpose when bridled, or trample what we love when left unchecked.
Freedom in relationships depends on restraint as much as expression. A free society requires laws to protect liberty, and a healthy relationship requires self-government to protect trust. When anger is allowed to speak first, it crowds out reason, compassion, and humility. Words spoken in the heat of anger linger long after apologies are offered. Bridling anger does not mean denying truth or avoiding hard conversations. It means choosing the right time, tone, and spirit to speak that truth without destroying the bond we are meant to preserve.
Christ modeled strength under restraint. He confronted error without cruelty and corrected sin without contempt. His example reminds us that love is not proven by volume or force, but by discipline and patience. In relationships, bridled anger creates space for understanding, accountability, and healing. It invites the Spirit rather than silencing it. When we pause, pray, and choose measured words, we reflect Christlike living that values both truth and charity.
Scripture:
“He that is slow to anger is better than the mighty; and he that ruleth his spirit than he that taketh a city.” — Proverbs 16:32
Daily Application:
Pause before responding when you feel anger rising. Take one deep breath, say a brief prayer for clarity, and choose words that aim to heal rather than win.