Willful Positivity

Willful Positivity

Freedom Is a Responsibility, Not a Reward

Why liberty only survives when citizens discipline themselves more than they demand control of others

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Alma Ohene-Opare
Dec 22, 2025
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The Axiom We’ve Forgotten

Freedom is not a prize handed to the obedient. It is not a perk granted by the powerful. Freedom is a responsibility—heavy, demanding, and sacred. It is a moral trust placed in the hands of a people who must govern themselves before they dare ask to govern others. This is the axiom our age has misplaced.

We live in a moment when liberty is often framed as license: the right to do whatever one wants, whenever one wants, without consequence. But that is not freedom. That is indulgence. And indulgence, left unchecked, always demands a warden.

True liberty survives only where self-restraint thrives. When citizens lose the discipline to rule their own appetites, they will soon invite rulers to manage their lives. History is unambiguous on this point. The road from freedom to bondage is paved with excuses for irresponsibility.

Two Roads, One Choice

Picture two roads diverging in a republic. One road is smooth and popular. It promises comfort without character, rights without duties, pleasure without sacrifice. On this road, every problem is solved by more rules for them and fewer standards for me. Every failure is outsourced to institutions. Every hardship is met with a demand for control.

The other road is narrower. It is harder. It insists that liberty begins at home—with discipline, virtue, faith, and personal responsibility. On this road, citizens ask not, “Who should restrain others?” but “How must I govern myself?”

A free society can only walk one of these roads at a time. When the second road is abandoned, the first ends exactly where it always does: with surveillance replacing trust, mandates replacing conscience, and force replacing virtue.

The Founders Knew the Price of Freedom

America’s founders were not naïve romantics. They were sober students of human nature. They understood that no constitution, no matter how brilliant, could save a people unwilling to live morally.

James Madison warned that self-government presupposes self-control. A people incapable of governing themselves would inevitably be governed by others. George Washington echoed this truth, emphasizing that religion and morality were indispensable supports of political prosperity. In other words, freedom was never meant to float free of virtue. It was anchored to it.

The American experiment did not assume angels. It assumed citizens willing to restrain their impulses for the sake of the common good. Remove that restraint, and the entire structure begins to wobble.

Faith: The Inner Constitution

Before there was a written Constitution, there was an unwritten one—etched into the conscience. Faith is not a private accessory to freedom; it is its inner architecture. Scripture repeatedly ties liberty to self-mastery: “He that hath no rule over his own spirit is like a city that is broken down, and without walls”—Proverbs 25:28. A society without walls is not liberated; it is vulnerable.

When faith recedes, something else rushes in to fill the void, usually the state. What conscience once governed, bureaucracy attempts to manage. What families once taught, institutions now regulate. What churches once formed, courts now litigate. This is not progress. It is substitution. And substitutions always come attached with the strings of subjugation.

The Lie of Control

Here is the great lie of modern politics: that freedom can be preserved by controlling others. We are told that safety requires more restrictions, that equality requires enforced outcomes, that compassion requires coercion. But coercion, no matter how well-dressed, is still coercion. And it corrodes liberty from the inside out.

A people obsessed with controlling others will eventually accept being controlled themselves. The habit forms quietly. First, we demand rules for our neighbors. Then we accept rules for our families. Finally, we tolerate rules for our consciences.

Freedom does not die in a single dramatic moment. It erodes through a thousand rationalizations.

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