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Willful Positivity

You Are One Choice Away From a Different Life

The Radical Power of Single Decisions

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Alma Ohene-Opare
Oct 15, 2025
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There are moments in life when the weight of our circumstances feels unbearable, when the walls close in, and the world convinces us that the cards were stacked against us from birth. We’re told that the system is rigged, that the powerful are greedy, that opportunity is a myth, and that our failures are not our fault. This chorus of blame, though soothing to the wounded soul, has a sinister effect: it divorces us from the truth that has always set humanity free—we are moral agents endowed by God with the power to choose.

Freedom Begins With Responsibility

Choice is the cornerstone of liberty. From Eden to America, every story of freedom begins with a decision. God placed Adam and Eve in a garden rich with possibility, but their destiny hinged on a single act of will. So too, every human life is a garden of potential, cultivated, or destroyed, by the seeds we choose to plant.

Our Founders understood this divine pattern. They staked the very idea of America on it. “We hold these truths to be self-evident,” they wrote, “that all men are created equal… endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights.” That single word, endowed, is everything. It means that freedom is not a government grant, nor a social construct. It is a spiritual inheritance. But with it comes the moral duty to govern oneself.

We cannot celebrate freedom and renounce responsibility in the same breath. To do so is to forfeit both.

The Great Contrast: Excuses or Agency

Today’s culture has mastered the art of shifting blame. If you fail, the system is at fault. If you stumble, society failed you. If you struggle, capitalism is cruel. And if you succeed, well, then you must have cheated.

It’s a strange inversion of justice, isn’t it? In this worldview, personal responsibility becomes oppression, and accountability becomes cruelty. But the truth is simpler and more liberating: the choices we make chart the course of our lives far more than the systems we inhabit.

I’ve seen men who grew up in broken homes, surrounded by addiction and despair, rise to build lives of integrity and hope. And I’ve seen others, given every advantage, throw their blessings away through apathy, pride, or rebellion. The difference between them was not luck or privilege, but choice.

Scripture affirms this timeless law: “I have set before you life and death, blessings and curses. Now choose life, so that you and your children may live.” (Deuteronomy 30:19)

Notice God didn’t say, “Wait for the system to change.” He said, “Choose.” Because even in the most constrained circumstances, the human will remains sovereign.

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